By Wayne Elise
Moment variation of the e-book by way of Wayne Elise, generally called Juggler, who seems to be in Neil Strauss' 'The Game'
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I don’t just demonstrate - sometimes I push. I asked one of my clients to walk over and casually engage the wearer of a Yankees cap. He and ‘Carl’ hit it off and were quickly chatting like old friends about baseball. But a couple minutes into the conversation one of the three cute women Carl was with wandered over and tried to steal my client’s attention. But wisely he didn't take the bait. He just gave a friendly little wave and kept talking about RBIs and puffed-up home run hitters. Later my student asked Carl in a confidential tone, "Which one of these girls is your girlfriend?
Instead he should support them and use them to crank up the tension. ' You say, 'You're right. ' Say that and I guarantee she will be ripping your clothes off at the end of the night. " Juggler: "Whoever said that should be forced to eat Spam. An attractive woman will not initiate a sexual relationship with you. It just makes her feel desperate. It goes against her ego, her biology and most of her fantasies. You have to go first. She longs for a man who can lead her into a sexual relationship. When a woman meets you a window of potential opens.
That's lame. Instead, come on to her at the library. Whisper in her ear and trace the curve of her hip bone with your finger. Tell her you want to make love to her between the stacks of books. It will get her hot and when you get home you will have super sex. As I had to learn the hard way, sexual tension cannot be created in the car at the end of the night. It has to happen way before then because sexual tension is as much about barriers as it is about attraction. " Juggler: "Okay. Maybe a story will help.