By Muriel James, Dorothy Jongeward
Twenty-five years and 4 million readers express that Born to Win can swap lives for the higher. This bestselling vintage makes use of the well known mental procedure known as transactional research (TA) to discover the jobs we unconsciously act out every day. Its fifty gestalt workouts have helped a iteration discover how they impart with others and consider themselves. in order to have extra keep an eye on over your lifestyles, paintings extra successfully, and love others fortunately, Born to Win can assist carry out the perception and self assurance of a born winner.
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Qxp 11/5/07 3:23 PM Page 36 I’d be called in to the comptroller’s office and pressured to pay the bills. I had no money and I had no control over my situation. This whole experience, aside from ruining college for me, left me wanting to control everything. My college has a small ski area. It was very competitive to get on the ski patrol, and I really wanted to make it. I had a very busy semester, with a difficult course load and a varsity sport. I worked myself into a tizzy. When the ski patrol final exam came, I got the highest score on the test.
My husband went ahead without me, and I had to take care of my two older children and sell the house. It was an extremely stressful time, and I was not happy about being pregnant because I had planned to go back to school after we moved. My husband loved his new job and was not home much. I was lonely and unhappy. I slept only a few hours a night. The PPD came upon me a few days after giving birth. It felt like the world was ending. After some rest and some meds, I was OK, but it took me a long time, about six months, to feel like myself.
When I compare myself to other women, I either think I am way better or I think I am at the bottom of the barrel. There does not seem to be a middle ground and I do not have a clear sense of where I fit into the big picture. There are very few women with whom I connect; however, when I do I tend to have long and deep friendships. Sometimes I lie awake at night worrying about whether I will be able to keep my commitments to others. I worry whether I will actually do what I’ve said I’d do the next day.